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Why Compassion? A personal journey of self-healing

Roslina Chai (蔡姗珊)
9 min readApr 4, 2021

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Dear reader, I’m glad your curiosity has led you here. It is my hope to share a bit of how I came to embrace compassion. This being a simplified story of how I learnt to re-purpose every knowledge at my disposal to heal myself (in conjunction with professional help, and it is important to stress that seeking professional help is critical) from a mental breakdown:

  • Neuroscience gave me a solid foundation in understanding memory, habits, cognition, and emotions (at one stage, I was a board director at the Greenstein Institute of Applied Neuroscience); and
  • The Virtues Project’s faiths (plural) based communication framework gave me a healthy way to talk myself into a calmer state (I am a certified facilitator); and
  • Wim Hof and pranayama gave me tools to master my breath as a way to calm myself down (a daily discipline of breathing exercises I’ve maintained to this day); and
  • TCM (traditional chinese medicine) and ayuverda gave me knowledge for sustained physical self-care (primarily ways to maintain a strong immune system, and facilitating my own body’s inner wisdom); and
  • My legal and coaching training in the art and science of questions helped me ask myself powerful questions that act as clues (for a question not asked is a door not opened), which when combined…

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Roslina Chai (蔡姗珊)
Roslina Chai (蔡姗珊)

Written by Roslina Chai (蔡姗珊)

Executive Doctoral Candidate * 6x Entrepreneur * Nonviolent Communication Mediator * Healing & Reconciliation Facilitator * Compassion Coach * roslinachai.com

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